
Consultant in maritime history and creative lifestory
The sea and Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Trans, Queer and Intersex people
Are people's sexual identities and practices anyone else's business? And how are they relevant to the sea?
Well, the personal is political. And in a world that's oppressively heteronormative, injustices and the struggle to right them merits discussion. Merchant ships were the main place where British (and Swedish) men could be out and camp throughout the second half of the 20C. That's important, because it shows that people could suspend homophobia at will, even when 'homosexuality' was criminalised.
And the Royal Navy has since 2000 done one of the
biggest about-turns of any employer. Instead of hanging 'miscreants', in 2019 the LGBT+ charity
Stonewall placed naval services at number 15 in its top 100 list of LGBT+-friendly employers: www.royalnavy.mod.uk/news-and-latest-activity/news/2019/january/21/190121-rn-rm-top-LGBT+-employer.
From morality crusades to Polari-speaking sailors in Round the Horne, and from Querelle of Brest to Jean Paul Gaultier, Tom of Finland to the European Court of Human Rights, I've summarised it and consulted with maritime museums on how to improve their representation of queer seafarers.
Illuminating and insightful history books have changed our understanding for ever, for example those by Allan Bérubé, George Chauncey, Matt Houlbrook, Emma Vickers and Arne Nilsson's 2005 book (only in Swedish) about the history of camp sub-culture on Swedish ships: Såna" på Amerikabåtarna: De svenska amerikabåtarna som manliga homomiljöer. It translates as ‘Men like that’ on the Swedish-American ships.
Transitioning
For very different stories of seafarers transitioning, read about:- Dru Marland, a Male to Female (MTF) trans person who worked for P&O Ferries as a technician. You can see blow-by blow extracts from her diary from 2003, including a bitter and significant court case at beingdrusilla.wordpress.com/the-seafaring-diaries/
- Michelle Clark, a MTF former deck officer, who worked for Sir William Reardon Smith's Company. See my interview with Michelle at bit.ly/MichelleNautilus. And read her book at From Ship to Shore & a Whole Lot More. (UK Book Publishing, June 2021, ISBN 1914195272, £14.50). It's now available at www.amazon.co.uk/Ship-Shore-Whole-Lot-More/dp/1914195272/. Until now no Trans maritime memoir has covered twelve years at sea, or been written by such a senior officer.
Where can you find out more?
- On my Blog - genderedseas.blogspot.co.uk
- In some of the articles I post/ https://ljmu.academia.edu/JoStanley
- At the many talks and conferences I do. Watch my blog for the latest news of these.
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Five easy steps
- Check out the bibliography of LGBT++ seafarers' history I compiled, at www.academia.edu/37107492/Queer_Seas_bibliography_doc. And please help by adding to it
- See my illustrated Power Point talk on YouTube, LGBT++ Maritime History: a whirlwind tour of a jigsaw 1600-2020, Feb 2021, bit.ly/queermarhist
- Take a virtual tour of the Hello Sailor exhibition at Merseyside Maritime Museum. Homotopia filmed an interview with me in 2008 as I toured them round it: bit.ly/HomotopiaHello
- If you want to hear seafarers' own words, and read transcripts of them, physically visit the Sailing Proud Archive in Liverpool. It's the only queer seafarers' archive in the world. I'm happy to have helped set up.
- Follow Maritime UK's Pride in Maritime network. www.maritimeuk.org/events/events/pride-maritime-network/. It meets monthly on line. All welcome.
Creating public memorials.
I'm hoping there'll be enough support for a Rainbow Seas intergenerational project. Young people could interview maritime veterans and help create virtual blue plaques to commemorate significant places in their lives.
Do contact me at [ ] if you'd like to be part of this.My latest article
'A remarkable achievement of this history is the consummate ease with the complexities of human
sexuality diversity are translated into a highly readable, compelling and perhaps most uncommon,
a most entertaining history ... What a joy to read, which is not common in the world of academic
history.'
Jeff Evans, organiser of LGBT+ History What it is and How to Do it conferences.
Paul Baker and Jo Stanley, Hello Sailor! A Hidden History of Gay Life at Sea, Pearson Education, 2003. Routledge, 2015
Discover my interview about writing it on the Routledge History posts.
Resources you can use
- See the touring exhibition I co-curated for Merseyside exhibition,
Hello Sailor! - Use the Sailing Proud Archive Merseyside Maritime Archives
If you're an LGBT+ person in the Royal Navy use RN Compass, the support organisation
- Join in the new moves to create an online queer archive
- Invite me [ ] to give a talk or lead a workshop for your organisation
- Rictor Norton's blog, Gay History and Literature
I always welcome stories from LGBT+ seafarers. Get in touch [ ] if you'd like to share your story
- for the next article or presentation I write
- If you want help in shaping your story yourself, for publication or not
My recent work

I've recently been looking at the early history of maritime people transitioning, including Dr Michael Dillon, an unexplored Royal Navy doctor from WW2.
Reading on
Chapters
- Stanley J. 2020. 'Frocks versus guns: UK seafaring women and queered people sailing the South Atlantic in the 1982 Malvinas/ Falklands conflict', eds Birgit Braasch and Claudia Andrea Müller, Off Shore: Perspectives on Transatlantic Pleasure Travel since the 19th Century, Lit-Verlag, Hamburg, pp61-98.
- Stanley J. 2018. Entries on UK armed forces and UK merchant marine in The Global Encyclopedia of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer History, Macmillan Reference USA, New York. Entries on UK armed forces and UK merchant marine pp1066-9; entries on language pp909-913
- Stanley J. 2013. 'They thought they were normal - and queens too: gay seafarers on British liners 1945-1985' in Duncan Redford, ed, Maritime History and Identity: The sea and culture in the modern world, IB Tauris, London, 230-250.
- Stanley J. 2012. 'Queered seafarers in heterotopic spaces', in Richard Gorski and Britta Söderqvist, eds, The Parallel Worlds of the seafarer: Ashore, Afloat and Abroad, Papers from the 10th North Sea History Conference, Maritime Museum and Aquarium, Gothenburg, 179-200, https://tinyurl.com/queer-heterotopic.
- Stanley J. 2012. 'On buffer-kissers, bus-station skanks and mile-high clubs: sexualities and transport', in Peter Norton et al, eds, Mobility in History, The Yearbook of International Association for the History of Transport, Traffic and Mobility, Berghahn, New York, 29-49, http://dx.doi.org/10.3167/mih.2013.040104.
- Stanley J. 2007. Entry on homosexuality, Oxford Encyclopaedia of Maritime History, Oxford University Press, New York.
Journal Articles (selected)
- Stanley, J, 2024. Contributing to round table review of Seth Stein Le Jacq’s Sexual and Gender Difference in the British Navy, 1690-1900, International Journal of Maritime History, 2024, tbc. uk.sagepub.com/en-gb/eur/international-journal-of-maritime-history/journal202231
- Stanley J. 2021 'For the record - the story of a trans maritime professional', Nautilus Telegraph, 21 March 2021, https://bit.ly/MichelleNautilus
- Stanley J. 2018. 'Hello Sailor! Exhibiting the queer masculinity of floating heavens', special issue on museums and masculinity for ICOM-CE Digital, no 14, Museos y género: ¿y los hombres? http://www.icom-ce.org/revista-icom-ce-digital
- Stanley J. 2017. '(Actively) moving missing "minorities" from the margins to the main in maritime museums', Topmasts, December, 37-41. https://snr.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Topmasts-special-issue-rev.pdf.
- Stanley J. 2015. 'LGBT+ Oral History: current British work', Oral History, Autumn, Vol 43, no 2.
- Stanley J. 2012. 'Queer seafarers in the Falklands conflict', Polari: http://www.polarimagazine.com/features/polari-ing-malvinas-falklands-conflict, June
- Stanley J. 2015. 'Hoofing it on deck: images of dancing in the maritime past', International Journal of Maritime History, August, 556-573, http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0843871415591750.
- Stanley J. 2012. 'Polari-ing all the way to the Malvinas/Falklands Conflict', Polari magazine, https://tinyurl.com/queerfalklandsea.
- 2007. Stanley J. Entry on homosexuality, Oxford Encyclopaedia of Maritime History, Oxford University Press, New York.
Filmed talks
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2023. "Revealing queer maritime history: international museums' LGBT+ sea exhibitions," Blaydes Maritime Centre webinar, University of Hull, May 2023. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPqJ-8tRXeA&t=74s
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2023. "Entertaining 4 Sanity@sea: Hull's glitzy ship's steward Roy 'Wendy' Gibson and the history of shipboard entertainment," University of Hull, Blaydes Maritime Centre webinar, Feb 2023. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGg9seH4tgg&t=646s
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2023. "A Whirlwind Tour of a Jigsaw 1600-2020. 400 packed years of LGBTQI+ maritime history, " Maritime UK, Pride in Diversity network webinar. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nslyxO679Po
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2008. Homotopia. "Hello Sailor," filmed interview with me touring an interviewer round the Merseyside Maritime Museum version of the Hello Sailor exhibition, 2008. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFhyEGdEAJA
My gendered sea blog entries on LGBT++ in maritime life
- Stanley, J. 2024. ‘Gay mystery on liner, 50s-style fiction,’ 24 June 2024. genderedseas.blogspot.com/2024/06/gay-mystery-on-liner-50s-style-fiction.html
- Stanley, J. 2023. 'Queer Navy: seeing the documents, hearing the stories. Seth Stein LeJacq', 18 Oct 2023, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2023/10/queer-navy-seeing-documents-hearing.html
- Stanley, J. 2023. 'Pioneering trans ex-Wren dies: Mark Rees WRNS', 27 Aug 2023, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2023/08/first-wren-to-transition-dies-mark-rees.html
- Stanley, J. 2022. 'Norway - gay seafarers' history is revealed', 7 Oct 2022, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2022/10/norway-gay-seafarers-history-is-revealed.html
- Stanley, J. 2022. 'Hello Sailor exhibition spawned Queer at Sea show, 2006 to 2022,' 13 June 2022, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2022/06/hello-sailor-exhibition-spawned-queer.html
- Stanley, J. 2022. 'High camp, ships, snaps, Cunard's Green Goddess and the future of archives,' 28 Feb 2022,
- https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2022/02/high-camp-ships-snaps-cunard-s-green.html
- Stanley, J. 2022. 'Celebrating the first ever Pride in Maritime Day on Mon 28 Feb 28, 2022,' 6 Feb 2022. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2022/02/celebrating-first-ever-pride-in.html
- Stanley, J. 2021.'Celebrating iconic Falklands steward Roy Wendy Gibson', 4 July 2021, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2021/07/celebrating-iconic-falklands-steward.html
- Stanley, J. 2021. 'LGBTQI history book affects seafarers' futures,' 28 May 2021, futures https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2021/05/lgbtqi-history-book-affects-seafarers.html
- Stanley, J. 2021. 'MTF seafarer tells her transition story,' 23 March 2021, story https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2021/03/mtf-seafarer-tells-her-transition-story.html
- Stanley, J. 2021. 'From ship's steward to LGBT+ media activist: Mick Belsten,' 31 Jan 2021, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2021/01/from-ships-steward-to-lgbt-media.html
- Stanley, J. 2021. 'Sex, gender, and the US Navy,' 29 Jan 2021, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2021/01/sex-gender-and-us-navy
- Stanley, J. 2021. 'LGBTQI+ maritime events Feb 2021, ' 20 Jan 2021, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2021/01/lgbtqi-maritime-events-feb-2021.html
- Stanley, J. 2020. 'The first ship's doctor to transition', 13 Nov 2020, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2020/11/the-first-ships-doctor-to-transition.html
- Stanley, J. 2020. 'Melville, Whitman and seamen's sensation seeking,' 26 June 2020, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2020/06/melville-whitman-and-seamens-sensation.html
- Stanley, J. 2020. 'Bisexual ex-navy radio operator allowed his medals,' 10 Dec 2019, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2019/12/bisexual-ex-navy-radio-operator-allowed.html
- Stanley, J. 2020. 'Bisexual Falklands sailor takes action against MOD,' 9 May 2019, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2019/05/bisexual-falklands-sailor-takes-action_9.html
- Stanley J. 2017. Gay men at sea in WW2 - and raunchy divas. A little of what you fancy does you good, especially in wartime. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2017/07/gay-men-at-sea-in-ww2-and-raunchy-divas.html
- Stanley J. 2017: Argentine's first women submariner feared for: Eliana Maria Krawczyk's missing sub. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2017/11/argentines-first-women-submariner.html. Stanley J. 2016. Celebrating LGBT+ history and the sea at the National Maritime Museum. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2016/02/celebrating-LGBT+-history-and-sea-at.html
- Stanley J. 2016. Nancy Spain: Wrens and same-sex love. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2015/02/nancy-spain-wrens-and-same-sex-love.html
- Stanley J. 2016. Billy Budd (or gay sexuality at sea): See Opera North's new show next week. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2016/10/billy-budd-or-gay-sexuality-at-sea-see_54.html
- Stanley J. 2016. 'Lesbian ship' US navy to set off on Friday https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2016/11/lesbian-ship-us-navy-to-set-off-on.html
- Stanley J. 2016 (ed). Alex Beecroft: fictionalising queer seafarers in the age of sail. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2016/01/alex-beecroft-fictionalising-queer.html
- Stanley J. 2016. After that quayside kiss ... https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2016/08/after-that-quayside-kiss.html
- Stanley J. 2012. Queer voyages to the Falklands/Malvinas war. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2012/05/queer-voyages-to-falklandsmalvinas-war.html
- Stanley J. 2012. Attempted rape of US submariner - officer sacked. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2012/06/attempted-rape-of-us-submariner-officer.html
Stanley J. 2012. Norland Crew celebrate Falklands anniversary in Hull. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2012/06/norland-crew-celebrate-falklands.html.
- Stanley J. 2011. Hello Sailor in Nova Scotia. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2011/05/hello-sailor-in-nova-scotia.html
- Stanley J. 2011. Lesbian sailors' famous kiss? https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2011/12/lesbian-sailors-famous-kiss.html
- Stanley J. 2011. Victory day for LGBT+ navy personnel in US. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2011/09/victory-day-for-LGBT+-navy-personnel-in.html
- Stanley J. 2009. Was he gay? Posterity won't know. https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2009/02/was-he-gay-posterity-wont-know.html
- Stanley J. 2008. Gay seafarers & museums, https://genderedseas.blogspot.com/2008/08/gay-seafarers-museums.html
Book, conferences and exhibitions reviewed (selected)
- Stanley J. 2017. 'All in the Same Boat: The Untold Story of the British Ferry Crew who Helped Win the Falklands War' by Warren Fitzgerald, British Journal of Military History, 3 (3), 164-166, http://bjmh.org.uk/index.php/bjmh/article/view/180/153.
- Stanley J. 2012. Filipino Crosscurrents: Oceanographies of Seafaring, Masculinities, and Globalization', Kale Bantigue Fajardo, International Journal of Maritime History, June, 24(1), 474-476